On existing

My mum said that after she hadn't heard from me for nearly a week she checked out this blog to see what I'd been up to and in finding that I hadn't blogged at all in 2013 was worried that I must have expired.

Around the same time I came accross this post by Michael Gilpert via Nubby Twiglet and it struck a chord:

"What I was reminded by this whole ordeal, besides for the paranoid framework ive inherited from my mom, was that my friends and I currently live in a world where we dont exist if we dont post to the network."

Worry not: I have been existing!

A lot.

And some times, all that existing keeps me from proving to the rest of the world that I have been existing.

I woke up on the 2nd of January and suddenly realised: "I'm getting married this year."

Since then I've been a whirlwind of activity. A lot of wedding activity. And I didn't think it could be possible but even more non-wedding activity too.

At first I was drafting blog posts in my head about it all and just not finding the time to write them and then eventually I wasn't even thinking of blogging things.

I want to exist and document my existence and I hope that this is the start of the return of more regular blogging.